How to Attract an Aquarius Man in 8 Simple Steps

Are you trying to attract an Aquarius man?

Perhaps there’s an Aquarius in your social circle who you are hoping will notice you? 

Or maybe you’ve just started dating one and you are looking for ways to impress him?

If so, you’re in the right place. This article provides your ultimate guide to attracting an Aquarius.

However, before we dive into this, I want to share a very important story with you.

I spent most of my twenties desperately fighting to make men like me. 

It turned out I wasn’t so great at it! 

At the most, I’d be their ‘bit of fun’ for a short while before they found someone else. It felt like I’d never find a man who loved me for me!

However, this all changed when I learned about a little-known aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. 

This primal instinct has a huge impact on how men perceive the women in their life. 

If you activate this line of thinking, it often releases deep feelings of pride and purpose inside him. Naturally, he becomes more drawn to women who can make him feel like this.

Once I learned how to activate the ‘Hero’s Instinct’, it became a lot easier to get into deep fulfilling relationships with fantastic men (read my personal story to learn more).  

This is a simple skill to learn, once you know how. 

If you’re looking to attract a special guy, I’d recommend you learn more about how I discovered the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.     

Of course, there’s every chance that this Aquarius is already attracted to you! The guide below will help you realise whether this is the case.

What
an Aquarius Man Wants

1. Be mysterious around him

You need to try and get this man alone and if you can talk to him about important issues and can connect deeply with him, this will be really attractive to him.

If we think about you just meeting him, you
might notice that he isn’t really talking to you, but he is watching you, relax
as this is a typical trait of this sign. They tend to be quite overwhelmed by emotion
of any type. If he is attracted to you and likes you, he will probably ignore
you, but will keep looking at you. Just do exactly the same thing back but when
you look at him staring, try and hold that gaze and create an air of mystery
around yourself.

2. Be classy and knowledgeable

An Aquarius loves a classy and knowledgeable woman who is ideally ethical and driven. He will not be as fussed about how you look but will be very attracted to your brains and your interests. This could be something spiritual, history, the arts or even the universe! You may fund that he is also very attuned to astrology too. A higher octave of all the other planets, Aquarius tends to have a big ego and can also be very straight talking. Being open and honest with him whilst also holding some of that mystery is key. You can make light conversation around romance and love, but try and hold back.

3. Be a friend to him and don’t put pressure on

As mentioned, an Aquarius loves connections, sharing and community and their energy really demands friendships and companionship fore mostly and they are not just looking for romantic love but they are keen to find someone that they can call their best friend and their girlfriend. They admire a chance to be a friend fore mostly so try not to jump into any relationship with him and instead just warm the relationship by showing your caring side and just enjoying the friendship first. The best way to do this is to show how friendly and cool you are, how many friends you have yourself and in generally, your positive and outgoing energy.

This is a typically trait for this sign, and he is unlikely to just jump in and offer to take you on a date straight away, you are almost certainly heading for a long wait as he becomes your friend. This can be annoying, especially when you really want to be in a relationship or at least complemented so you know you are on the right path – but if you can wait for him to let his guard down first, you are in with a great shot. Whilst the Aquarius is not like a Capricorn who is ruled by Saturn where they find it hard to love and be very guarded, whereas the Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Uranus so they do still have that guarded edge to them.  They won’t be the kind of man who says ‘I think you are beautiful off the bat – they are going to make sure they are comfortable with you.  Treat him like a friend first, just like someone you don’t really want a relationship with – even you do. Don’t worry too much because Aquarius men want to be in love! It can just take a little longer for them to express their emotions and feelings, so be patient and try and hold off on physical contact until he drives it.

4. Don’t be too emotional with him

Another way to attract an Aquarius is to
not be too emotional. These logical people like to live with reason and they
tend to be quite detached from their feelings. They prefer to do things only
and always when they have been driven from rational decisions If you could pop
into their head you would see that they tend to run things over and over. If
you have tears, big gestures and emotional dramas, they won’t know how to
handle this and will likely run a mile! If you want to attract an Aquarius man
try not to scare them off. Anger and other extreme emotions should be kept in
check. If you are feeling emotional try and convey that rationally. If you want
to talk about something, just talk like you are having a calm discussion and
keep emotion out of things. If you can be logical and reasoned you stand a very
good chance of attracting him .

5. Keep him guessing as much as possible

A common trait with this Uranus based sign is his unpredictability and his boredom. Because he uses his mind, he needs to be stimulated and to have those surprises and buzzes. Show him that you are also full to the brim of ideas and adventure. If you can demonstrate your eccentric side as well, this will be a huge turn on for him! Other signs would like to know you right off the bat – perhaps a Cancer sign would want your life story – an Aquarius would like you to keep a bit of mystery and hold back a little. He will ask a lot of questions about you though, and you may find he won’t answer many about himself!

He will be trying to balance the conversation
so he withholds personal detail, but he might try and show off how smart he is.
You can help him be attracted to you by being very complimentary around his
intellect without being too sappy.

6. Be independent

An Aquarius is keen for you to let him have
a bit of freedom. This naturally rebellions sign is someone who really does
want to go off and do their own thing when they can. If you are a homebody or
someone who would struggle with this, don’t show it! (or look for another
sign.) Just like Capricorn and Aries men, this sign values his independence a
lot and because he has a lot of friends you may see him hopping groups and
getting out and about often literally into the great outdoors. If you can get
him outside then he will likely be in his elements and will start to see you as
very attractive indeed.

Boredom is the death of the relationship
for this sign, so show him that you are very cool, interested in him as a
friend and having those adventures but that you aren’t wanting to lock him
down!

You have to show that you are busy-with
work, a hobby, or something else. An Aquarius will run a mile if he senses that
you are clinging or waiting for him in anyway. That’s not to say he won’t help
you, as someone who is focused on equality and community, he is the kind of guy
who is here to make the world a better place – so if you volunteer you might be
able to get him to come along here.

You may have already seen that an Aquarius
man will blow hot and cold. You might find that he will speak to you for days,
and then reboot with alone time. They won’t feel that they need to feel they
speak to your every day, so you can’t be intense. Let him come to you as much
as possible and he will find this very attractive.

If you are too available, this won’t be
attractive to him. He also won’t want you to plan his schedule or your dates /
outings together – try and let him be the man and lead as much as possible.

A not eon this – if you think that you won’t
be attractive because you have a partner, think again! This rebel will be very
interest in the forbidden fruit!

7. Be creative and witty

An Aquarius man is usually intelligent but
also very creative and appreciates a woman who can also be very creative as
well. He is probably inventive and coming up with amazing ideas and is very
keen to show his imagination/ If you can contribute to these ideas and tell him
about quirky adventures and plans for the future, as well as things you have
read and looked at you will absolutely attract this man. He wants to know about
everything in the world and the small things don’t hold much appeal to him. Try
and keep some zest around you. In a group conversation instead of being a plane
Jane, try and talk about something unexpected. Bear in mind that as mentioned,
he is very keen on equality and freedom, so be sure not to put people down on
how they look or act as this will be a big turn off for him. He also doesn’t
like to hear about drama and gossip-  he
will be much more interested in the future and moving forwards and positivity
around this.

8. You need to stand out

Aquarius men like to see other people
showing interest. Whilst they take their time to get into liking you, he will
seek out women that are attractive, but you don’t have to be conventional. He
is looking for something, a special spark that you convey. You could dress
differently, you might have an unusual career or a hobby – this would really
attract him in the first instance before he gets to know you.

Are
you ready to date an Aquarius man?

When feel like you are starting to be
interested in the Aquarius man you have to be prepared to get past the detached
nature and the front he puts up to get to the inner centre of him. Naturally
defensive, he is someone that you will have to be the right woman for. If you
are independent, able to offer adventure and excitement and also can cope with
someone blowing hot and cold, he might be the man for you. A lot of making an Aquarius
attracted to you is playing games. You might find him ignoring your text
messages and you might get frustrated with him treating you as just another
buddy in his life. If you can get beyond this and this doesn’t matter as much
to you, you are likely to have something special.

Please leave the details below of the man
in your life and the issues you are facing. Or, if you have already attracted
an Aquarius man, can you tell us how you did it? It’s great to share tricks and
hints together.

Please do also share this across your
social networks so we can help more women wanting to attract an Aquarius man know
the right steps to take, as you can see, being too clingy and pushy, emotional
and physical early on could be a big mistake with this fixed sign, so let’s
spread the word.